Friday, June 6, 2008

HOW I WISH TO BE TREATED AS AN ELDER

Seen first as a person and second as an elder
Accepted fully by any group I wish to join
Integrated fully into all aspects of life in which I choose to participate 
Encouraged to participate when I hesitate (because of internalized ageism)
Expected to be able to do anything I wish--not wondered at
Validated for my qualities, regardless of age
Helped when I ask for help, or consulted when  you  don't know how
Respected for myself--not my longevity
Not given up on
Not identified with someone's mother, grandmother, aunt, teacher, or anyone in authority

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